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For Individuals and Couples

The only real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.
—Marcel Proust

Numerous benefits await individuals and couples who are about to engage in Focalizing. It guides us to use ourselves as a tool for tuning, focusing, clarifying, amplifying, and directing the energy and choices (in any particular matter) in a way that feels right and good in our beings.

  • Tapping our primal resources: In Focalizing, we drop-into our innate intelligence (beyond analytic thinking), building on what works for us rather than our shortcomings. We do this energetically; since that is the "field of possibility" in which our beings rest and restore themselves.
  • The limitations of logical thinking: In the process, we become aware that our logic systems while quite valuable are limited as far as deep fulfillment and multidimensional living are concerned. Our rational minds do not account for our capacity for rapture and joy.
  • A journey toward insight: Focalizing provides physical "felt sense" moments that can provide and connect us with that which is ordinarily hidden. We can then experience luminous insight, firm inner instruction or a "knowingness" that far surpasses any previous convictions. When we have such an opening in consciousness, we are forever changed.
  • Achieving fulfillment: Fulfillment is all about our physical felt senses and the degree of expansion or contraction we feel in them. Knowing this, we can learn to bring our mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual resources to bear in dissolving contractions and eradicating separation

While Focalizing for individuals and couples addresses challenges using the same nine-pointed star, couples present unique circumstances in the context of a Focalizing event. Focalizing with couples often requires opening a larger space with additional understandings, and intentions that are individual as well as a common one for all involved.

Couples often meet with Dr. Picucci for an informative preparation session before the formal Focalizing event. This ensures that in advance of the session, the couple:

  • Eliminates any learning gaps or deficits
  • Shares the same field of understanding
  • Develops specific, forward-moving intentions for the session
  • Prepares to drop into the fertile ground of illumination.


Photo by Jay Tyrrell